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Do you like being criticized?

Heatman

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In my book, constructive criticism is appreciated because it's the only way I can know what I'm not doing right for me to get better.

But, it's very obvious that some people don't like being criticized at all because of their self ego. 
 
RE: Do you like being criticized?

Only when I ask for feedback.

If I dress a certain way, I wouldn't want to be harassed about what you think I should or shouldn't wear. 
 
RE: Do you like being criticized?

I believe in What I do is what I get.  I have been always open to getting feedback but that doesn't mean that it has to be taken as an advantage for the opposite person. Also, how we address the problem is important. Because criticism can be taken in both positive ways such as for improvement whereas in a negative way like it could probably lower your self-esteem. 
 
RE: Do you like being criticized?

If I ask for it, then I wouldn't mind the kind of feedback that I get but when one feels like it's within their rights to criticize me when it's not their business to, I'm not going to take it lightly. 
 
RE: Do you like being criticized?

Constructive criticism is fine. There is always a certain way to convey it to us. If that's bad, then I don't care about it.
 
RE: Do you like being criticized?

If someone has something valueable to say to me, I would not mind. But if it is just pure nonsense, I would not want to hear about it. Everyone makes mistakes and pointing them out in a constructive way is actually helpful. Sooo... it is important to choose your approach as people react differently.
 
RE: Do you like being criticized?

Occasia said:
Constructive criticism is fine. There is always a certain way to convey it to us. If that's bad, then I don't care about it.
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Seriously, some people just open their mouth and talk all trash all in the name of criticism and I just look at them and laugh. 
 
RE: Do you like being criticized?

Yarik said:
If someone has something valueable to say to me, I would not mind. But if it is just pure nonsense, I would not want to hear about it. Everyone makes mistakes and pointing them out in a constructive way is actually helpful. Sooo... it is important to choose your approach as people react differently.
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Most of the time, people will end up having only nonsense to say about you especially when you are not licking their ass. It's something that's made me never to care at all. 
 
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Martinsx said:
Most of the time, people will end up having only nonsense to say about you especially when you are not licking their ass. It's something that's made me never to care at all. 
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Seriously, to be honest with you people will always have their own opinions about you no matter how good you are and it's why it's very useless that you care about them at all. 
 
I view constructive criticism as an opportunity for growth and learning. While it’s not always easy to hear, I believe that feedback, when given respectfully and thoughtfully, can be incredibly valuable. It helps me improve and refine my skills.

So yes, I appreciate constructive criticism because it pushes me to be better.
 
It depends on what kind of criticism it is. I always appreciate constructive criticism.
 
I don't think there is any point for me to feel bad when I am being criticised. It is part of life and what I should stand for. I've really focused more on that and not basically on any other means. The most important thing is always ensuring that one doesn't use demeaning words when doing so.
 
When I did something wrong, being criticised is 100% allowed and normal. How else can one learn if they are not called out and called to order? I accept being criticised.
 
Martinsx said:
When I did something wrong, being criticised is 100% allowed and normal. How else can one learn if they are not called out and called to order? I accept being criticised.
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That is true. To accept criticism is the best way that you can grow and become better. I don't see a better way other than this way to stay in the right moment.
 
Henrywrites said:
That is true. To accept criticism is the best way that you can grow and become better. I don't see a better way other than this way to stay in the right moment.
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A lot of people don't know how to accept when they are wrong. It's why there's so much misunderstanding in the world today.
 
Martinsx said:
A lot of people don't know how to accept when they are wrong. It's why there's so much misunderstanding in the world today.
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I couldn't agree more. Constructive criticism though is very helpful for self development and self improvement. Regrettably, most people act as if they are being accused when they are actually being corrected.
 
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